You know how I love Saturdays! I slept in today, then went to Arc for a few hours. I wandered around aimlessly picking stuff up and putting it in my cart only to put it back on the shelf a few minutes later. I’ve become so trained to shopping with a list that it’s actually getting harder for me to shop without a plan. The only plan I had was to find some good, strong, and gently worn backpacks for some our our streetkids. No such luck, unless they would want one with Scooby Doo or Mickey on it…I seriously doubt it. I came home with two small flower vases – .25 each, a larger vase – .50, two sundresses for Zoe – for under 2.00 each, and a few other equally good deals! Bargain season has begun!
I called home to check in and let Benny know that I was going to Chili’s for some Mango tea and Southwestern eggrolls and to write for awhile. Then I called my friend Amanda to see if she wanted to join me. So much for writing. I was in the mood for some good female conversation. I still find myself holding back from friendships a bit. It’s the whole – we don’t know what we’ll be doing in the Fall thing. I’ve been saying I’m determined to bloom where I’m planted even if it’s only temporary, but saying and doing are two different things. Anyway, Amanda met me there and we had a great chat with our lunch.
This has been home improvement week at the Nowell house. Too bad we couldn’t have done that before all the company came. Oh well, they didn’t come to see my house. Benny has been on top of his honey-do list! He fixed our front door, took the extra bed apart in the guest room and moved the treadmill in there from our room. Today he put the screen door back on the patio entrance – the wind had blown it in, and he’s at Home Depot right now buying lattice work and a few 2 x 4’s to finish fixing the patio. The kids and I are going to give the patio a good cleaning and take the van to vacuum it out. Now we just need to figure out when we’re going to paint our bedroom and bathroom. The paint has been sitting untouched since last Fall. One of these days…
I have an old friend that lives about an hour from here and I’ve been too chicken to call him. Isn’t that ridiculous? We haven’t seen him since college and haven’t kept in touch, but I’d like to see him again and meet his wife. I know friendships can change and maybe I’ve been afraid that he wouldn’t be interested in reaquainting himself with us. I hate it when I assume the worst. So, I guess I’ll feel the fear and do it anyway. What have I got to lose? I’m going to see him in June anyway at our college choir alumni reunion. Can you ever have too many friends?
Oooh . . . the southwestern egg rolls are my absolute favorite at Chili’s. I am so proud of you for intentionally making the choice to reach out for relationship over the easier decision of being by yourself.
I do the latter so often and then wonder why I am so lonely. A good chat with a new friend is nurturing for your soul.
I will be praying for that blooming where you are planted thing to come easier and easier. It is one of my greatest struggles in being where we are right now, too. Hugs to you, my KS friend.
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I know for a fact that at least one of your guest had a fabulous time. He told me about his trip to see you and did not mention anything about you needing to fix up your house. Did say something about you worked really hard to make his favorite meals and make him feel welcome! We all want our places to look nice for our friends and guest but they come to see us, not our homes! Blessing Niki!
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Peach~How long is our Kindred Spirit list now? π Thanks for the hug!
MAK~Adam is a GUY. No offense, but they don’t notice anything! LOL Seriously, I like our house, but occasionally the need to please monster rears it’s ugly head. I know Adam loves us – and would if we lived in a box, and I’m grateful for that. If you’re ever in Colorado, we’d love to keep you too. π
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O.K. Need to clarify…I would never insult Adam – it’s just that guys don’t notice the little things that bug women about their homes. The perfectionist in our female brains sometimes worries that our home reflects us – the person who is responsible for maintaining it. Besides, Adam is WAY too polite to say something if he did notice needed repairs! Love him for that! π
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